Wednesday, January 10, 2007

if you don't like, means everything in him suck...

i was thinking a few moments ago when i suddenly remember what happened during Chinese class and after reading an article from Straits Times.

man are really weird beings. maybe it's the mind that works. or maybe there's an explaination to it psychologically.
anyway, my point is, i feel that human minds really work in a weird way.
have you ever thought about this:
you have two classmates, one is your best friend while the other you hate most. when you detest someone, you tend to hate whatever he does. on the other hand, your best friend is not perfect, so when he does something wrong will you hate it too? maybe this is a bit confusing.
what if both the one you hate and the one you like(as a friend) commits the exact same mistake? will you put all the blame on the one you hate or on both of them? will you punish them equally?
dotts. the more i write about it, the more i think it doesn't make sense. maybe many people will say that "Yes, i will punish them both equally and blame them both"

what i really meant is, what if they have bad breath? will you laugh at both of them or the one you detest? what if both of them doesn't act like their own gender? will you tease both of them or the one you detest only?
then, i came to realise. if you make someone hate you, no matter how good or how correct you are, all he will do is LAUGH. until you are in the one being destest's shoes, then you will realise how terrible it feels to be laughed at or teased at in an horrendous way.

some people push things too far. but i feel that this is how our mind works. if you hate someone, whatever he does just suck. i ever felt that way. okay, fine~ i admit i detest someone and i seriously would not deny that i dislike his every move. but what can i do? i just can't help it. sighs. humans. human minds.

anyway, the article i came across from Straits Times was right. sometimes, it's just so difficult for one to accept or let the person know something. wanna know what is it? ask any sec4s students for the Straits Times reading material ; Term 1 week 2.

sighs. ASSIGNMENTS are driving me nuts. anyway, for the first time, i'm giving up the class i'm suppose to handle. two reasons led to my decision. those supposingly to help out doesn't agree with my ideas and seldom listen. second, the sec1s are too hyper active.
tomorrow is their last day anyway, so i've decided to stay in my station and not minger around tomorrow.
today was fun and i almost lost my voice. not blaming my partner because i was the one who insisted to give instructions. XP
hmms. if i don't leave now, i won't have time to finish my homeworks and don't talk about sleep. =]

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